Dont ask someone “Hey, what are you looking for?” Go ahead and note what kind of relationship youre looking for in your bio — experts usually recommend doing that — but avoid asking about specific character traits. Men are more inclined to ask this question than women are, Golden says.

How do you ask someone on tinder what theyre looking for?

I dont want to waste your time, so may I ask what youre looking for on here? 4. Ill tell you what I want, what I really, really want — so, tell me what you want, what you really, really want from this app? (Who doesnt love a subtle yet super relevant Spice Girls reference?) 5.

What are you looking at phrase?

Expresses discomfort because the interlocutor is looking at something; usually, this is said when the interlocutor has been staring at the speaker.