First, affairs are often a replication waiting to happen. And second, affairs are often forged with the same magnetic power that a marriage is, often rendering the affair as hard to break as a marriage. Thus, ending an affair, especially if it is long-term, may resemble a divorce.

Why ending an affair hurts?

A connection to another person has built over time and there will be guilt involved in ending the relationship. The fact is, the affair partner is a person too, made in Gods image, with feelings. And you, being in a relationship with them, know and care for them. So, it will hurt you to know that youre hurting them.

How do you end an affair with someone you love?

The first step to ending an affair is to make a firm decision that you ARE ending it. If there is anyone you trust, tell that person what you are doing and that you have decided to end it. Let them become your support, you encourager, and, if necessary, your courage. The second step is to end the affair NOW.