Most middle-years children need some time to adjust to their parents separation before their mother or father begins having new romantic interests. In general, a good guideline is about a six-month wait from the time you separate from your spouse to the time you start to date, although dating will often occur sooner.

Should divorced parents spend time together?

While it is generally recognized that co-parenting can provide additional comfort and stability for young children after a divorce, experts suggest that spending too much time together after a divorce can have some potentially-negative effects as well.

How should divorced parents communicate?

Separating feelings from behaviorGet your feelings out somewhere else. Never vent to your child. Stay kid-focused. Never use kids as messengers. Keep your issues to yourself. Set a business-like tone. Make requests. Listen. Show restraint.More items