Examples of red flag behaviors that happen early in relationships include excessive calling or texting, intense bouts of anger or frustration when you disagree, and other controlling behaviors that make you feel less like you want to be in the relationship and more like you want to walk out the door.

Can I say I love you in the first month?

D. Some people, however, use the term love rather loosely; in this case, saying I love you can feel appropriate in the first few weeks or months.