BFF MODE: Because BFF only shows users who identify as the same gender, everyone has First Move privileges. This means either party is able to send the first message once a match is created either from the Boom screen or their connections.

Do I have to message first on Bumble?

On Bumble, yes, women are required to send the first message after a match. But every other app, its up to whoever decides to make the first move. That is, until Tinder launches its new feature that will make it possible for women to chat only with men they message first.

What happens if you dont want to message first on Bumble?

On Bumble, women always make the first move. If she doesnt initiate a conversation within 24 hours, the connection expires. Men cannot initiate a conversation with women. However, they can show that theyre especially interested in her by using the daily 24-hour extend feature.

Can guys not message first on Bumble?

Bumble works the same for men and women, except that men arent allowed to send the first message to a woman theyve matched with. Once a woman sends a message to a man, they can chat without any restrictions. After making a match on Bumble, you can see and chat with contacts from the conversation page.