An older and more mature man is less likely to be affected by petty concerns and ego-hassles. His long experience would have given him a wider perspective on the really important things in life, an essential factor in any successful relationship.

Is it better to marry someone older?

It doesnt matter whether you are older or younger than him—you dont want a gap. Its best for you to marry someone exactly the same age. An older dude will shorten your life and a younger one will really shorten it. Studies show that women mostly prefer men their age, but most marry older.