How do you tell someone you love youre not ready for a relationship?

You can tell him that you like him but that youre not ready to take things to the next level and then let him tell you his thoughts and feelings. If hes wanting more, you can see if hes willing to take things slowly to see if your feelings grow. But his needs have to be a part of this process.

Is it OK to say youre not ready for a relationship?

And thats OK. Saying Im not ready to date could also mean theyre anxious about losing their independence, Lillian Rishty, LCSW, a psychotherapist who focuses on relationships and anxiety, tells Bustle. They may begin to feel trapped or fear giving up their own interests, hobbies, and time.

Should I wait for him to change?

You shouldnt have to wait around for someone to be kind to you. You shouldnt have to wait around for someone to love you. And the moment it feels like thats what youre doing, is when you know its time. Its time to stop waiting for a change that will never happen, and make a change in your own life for the better.