How do you find love on OkCupid?

13 Rules For Actually Finding Love On OKCupidMessage first. Never use tired lines. Be honest about the pictures. Read the entire profile. Be sincere. Be open with what you want. Have a phone call first. Pick an easy first date.More items •7 Apr 2014

Can you search by location on OkCupid?

At the moment, we dont have a way to filter by state or national borders. Instead, we filter by distance only. Were considering adding an option to filter by state/country, but it is not a currently available feature.