You want to get a little deeper than just talking sex, but you also dont want to get too deep at the risk of seeming clingy. Keep it light, fun, and flirty. Although a little hotter texting is fine, try not to focus only on the sexual aspects, because you also want to build up an emotional connection with him.

When should he text after hooking up?

Generally speaking, its always okay to text to pin down a date, time or place to meet, no matter what point youre at in the courtship. 3. If you like a girl, ALWAYS text the day after the first date.