Narcissistic abuse often involves frequent implications that you make bad decisions and cant do anything right. An abusive partner may even call you stupid or ignorant outright, though they might insult you with a falsely affectionate tone: “Honey, youre so dumb.

When does a narcissist discard you?

The discard phase When a narcissist has completely worn their victim down, they may tire of them. It might be because theyve bled them dry of funds, or theyve simply found someone new to abuse.