Romantic relationships can be difficult to maintain because they possess more intimacy than any other relationship, says life coach Kali Rogers. The amount of closeness — emotional, physical, spiritual, and even mental — that is in a relationship is overwhelming to handle at times.

Why do I struggle finding love?

Yet another reason we often find ourselves struggling to fall in love or maintain it is our tendency to seek the unavailable. Sometimes, this is a form of self-sabotage. Were so scared of love, or so low on ourselves, that we pursue people we know will never really open up to us, or create anything real.