Arguing with your significant other isnt necessarily unhealthy. Fighting early in a relationship doesnt mean you and your significant other are doomed, but there are some important decisions to make together in the first few months of dating to ensure youre both on the same page.

How long should your first fight be in a relationship?

Three months is a healthy time period to know each other before the first big fight. Usually couples avoid conflict before that.

How long should fights last in a relationship?

Gary Brown, a prominent dating and relationship therapist in Los Angeles, says fights should really only last about 10 minutes. “There is a difference between fighting and having a healthy argument,” he tells Elite Daily. “Fights tend to last longer than 10 minutes and are more based upon winning.

What do new couples fight about?

While sex and money are the most “important” things couples get mad at each other for, less important things such as sexual jealousy, hating each others friends, dealing with each others family, and discussing children all factor into things couples say cause the most conflict.

When couples have their first fight?

I wish there were an exact answer for this but Richardson explains, Since everyone communicates differently, there isnt a typical amount of time after which couples start arguing. Instead, she says that fighting within the first three to five dates is a no-no because it may signal that communication doesnt flow

What are the top 3 things couples argue about?

The 10 Most Common Things Couples Fight AboutSex. Lets start off with the big three: sex, money, and kids. Money. There are so many different fights that couples can get into when it comes to money. Kids. Children round out the top three most popular fights. Timing. Quality Time. Romance. Chores. Pet Peeves.More items •Jun 6, 2016