So remember the most important thing you can do is to smile, say hello and introduce yourself when you first sit opposite your date. When you smile and laugh you give off great energy and people will relax and want to be around you. The best conversation is one that is natural and flows.

What do you say on speed dating?

You can talk about anything you like. But hobbies, work-life, family, travel and other interests are all good. A good opener is to ask whether the person has speed dated before. If they have been to lots of events, choose more unusual questions to avoid a sense of repetition for them (thatll help you stand out).