This recent study examined married couples to find out if opposites fare well in marriage, or if picking a partner more like yourself is the better way to go. According to the study, couples who shared similar values were happier in their marriages.

Is it bad to be too similar in a relationship?

Con: Too much similarity often means that the both of you arent going to push each other to try something new. Also, doing the same thing with the same person all the time can get tedious. So, developing solo hobbies is a great way to keep the relationship interesting.

Should you date someone similar to you or opposite?

Even though it makes sense to date some whos a lot like you, dont rule out the idea of dating someone who is your opposite, either. If your partner happens to have a different outlook on life, different personality traits, and even different interests, it can make for a fun and interesting relationship.

How do you know if someone is compatible with you?

15 Signs You And Your Partner are CompatibleYou dont question the love in your relationship. You know things about each other no-one else does. You dont want to change them. You enjoy spending time apart. You share common interests. You fight with each other. You want to work out serious problems.More items

Can you control who you are attracted to?

Even though intense attraction can feel impossible to control, according to OReilly, whether or not you act on it is completely within your control. If you have sex with your friends partner, youll hurt their feelings and your friendship, says OReilly.