Dr. John Gottman, marriage expert and author of Why Marriages Succeed or Fail, would say that, yes, it is natural for your to think of your spouse as your best friend—its really very important for your marriage, in fact. According to Gottman, deep friendship is the foundation of a happy marriage.

Is marrying your best friend good?

The study found that the well-being effects of marriage are about twice as large for those whose spouse is also their best friend. According to the study, women benefit more from being married to their best friend than men do. But, women are also less likely to regard their spouse as their best friend.

Why do best friends make good relationships?

Friends enjoy spending time together, share similar interests, take care of each other, trust each other and feel a lasting bond between them. It isnt a coincidence that these all happen to be qualities that also define successful intimate relationships.

What is a friendship marriage?

Companionship or friendship marriage is the joining together of two people who have, or have had, successful careers, financial independence, strong friendships, and a healthy sense of self-worth. They are already fulfilled in their lives, and marriage is the icing on the cake.