That being said, New York City-based relationship expert Susan Winter recommends couples maintain a baseline of keeping in touch on a daily basis, or — at the very least — every other day, especially if theyre long distance. “Without ongoing contact, your relationship will wither,” she warns.

Is it normal for couples to not talk everyday?

Good communication is necessary in a relationship. While its totally fine if you and your boo chat on a daily basis, experts say that — in a healthy relationship — you shouldnt feel obligated to chat seven days a week.

How often should couples communicate during the day?

Three times is plenty. Psychologist Nikki Martinez agrees, saying 3–5 texts per day is perfect. More if there is something specific you need, such as picking something up, directions, or are having a discussion about something, she says. Ultimately, the best way to find a happy medium is to discuss it.