The Amish Community and Dating Dating among the Amish typically begins around age 16 with most Amish couples marrying between the ages of 20 and 22. To find a prospective date, the young adults socialize at functions such as frolics, church, or home visits.

Can you date an Amish man?

Weddings are special celebrations within the Amish community. Outsiders, non-Amish, or English, as they call the rest of the world, are not permitted to marry within the Amish community.